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Old 08-21-2005, 01:22 PM   #1
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What do i make of this?

My boyfriend is currently living with me and my parents and he's been living here for about 3 years (we've been together 4) I do his wash and everything. Lately he's been talking about getting his own place. He works and I'm currently unemployed but I am in College. He used to always say that when he gets a place I would be moving in with him. Well Now that he is finally doing it he has been saying things like "I need my own place", "when i get MY place", "My house", "I'm gonna Look", MY PLACE MY PLACE...... he hasn't been saying ANYTHING about me going with him or looking at places with him.
My mom did say something to him about me not being able to move with him since im in college. BUT i am 20 years old ....
I am deperate to grow up and start my life ..... I want to move in with my boyfriend when he does get a place but right now he is acting like he doesnt even want me living with him.
I am thinking about bringing it up and asking him....If he doesnt want me moving with him I'm going to have a huge problem with that considering he's been living with me for 3 years .............

Any suggestions??? Should I ask him what his plans are??

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Old 08-21-2005, 01:39 PM   #2
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Re: What do i make of this?

Yes, I would definitely want to know where I stood.

Old 08-21-2005, 01:51 PM   #3
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Re: What do i make of this?

I agree, you not only have the right to ask him, but you really should have asked after the first time he said it. Don't wait any longer.

Old 08-21-2005, 04:31 PM   #4
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Re: What do i make of this?

It could just be that he is saying that because he'll be paying for it and living in it. "My" may mean "our."

Like he associates his own place as being "my place" while perhaps living with you at your parents is "your place"

Though I agree with the above -- check it out.

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