Thank you Piranna & Goody, for coming to my aid with your advice! OMG, I was freaking out! I really felt like I was going to throw up. We had never split up in our 13 yrs. together. Ugh, all the different emotions & all the crying I have done, reminds me of high school!
Well, some good news for us tho....tonight (after 6 days apart) we decided to work things out & he's coming home. Actually, he text me the morning after I started this thread and said he wanted to talk again & that he still loved me...let me tell you, that was a relief! I didn't know how I was going to make it thru the day.
So, we've talked about the things we needed to & I wrote a 7 page letter to him that I had worked on all day just to get it perfect.....and he loved it, said it was my best one yet....whew!
I just want to say that if problems could be worked out, it is a much better way to go. Hey Goody~~~I'm never
going to blurt out that we need to take a break again! LOL. I understand what you're talking about. Tomorrow, I'm going to post some wonderful advice that I had found in a book on ways for a couple to be happy. I told hubby that we both need to read them everyday since most of them apply to us. I think you guys will like them.
We still need to work on our issues but at least we will be together. Sounds like he didn't really enjoy his days away either...since he had to sleep on the floor at his friends' house!!
So, thanks again for the help!! I'll be back to write the advice tomorrow.