Where to live?
It's me once again. My ex and I have been living together for about a week now. It is not going well. She wants her space and it is hard for me to give it to her when we are always together. I have the option to move out. One of her friends in looking for a place to live and is willing to stay here. I don't know what to do. I've tried talking ot my ex and seeing what she wants, but I think she is more afraid of people thinking she kicked me out than anthing else. Here is what I told her. I told her that I hope and pray we can work things out because my life is empty without her. I told her this was hard on me and she said it was hard on her too. I told her that I didn't really want to move out, but that I didn't like the way things were getting between us. I had a friend live with his gf, now ex, last year. They broke up and by the end of the year, they absolutely hated one another. I don't ever want that to happen with me and her. I told her that I would move out before I let that happen. We agreed that me moving out was the best solution. I talked it over with our other roomate, her sister, and she said ok. The thing is, my ex flipped out when I talked to her sister about it. She asked why I had to start doing it so soon. When am I supposed to start? I am just trying to do the right thing. I'm hoping that me moving will give her the space she needs, and I'm really hoping that she will see how much I love her and come back to me. I am scared to death that I will move out and she won't ever see me again, but what other option do I have. Today she came in my room and told me that if I was going to move, I needed to talk to the new rommate about it. She was almost crying and said she wanted to make it clear that moving out was my choice. I am just trying to save whatever we have left. I'm really trying to do the best thing here. Is she really wanting me to move so she can hever her space? Or is this basically her signaling the end of our relationship? I just want to make the right move. Any advice from my friends would be greatly appreciated.
PS--If there are any questions about what is going on, my past posts ought to explain it.
God bless you all,