Originally Posted by dsleik
can i ask why you have 2 kids, 6 yrs together adn arent married yet??? its never a good idea to stay in a relationship for the kids sake no matter how hard they will take it cuz chances are thye will see 2 parents who dont get along and dont act like they love eacthother.,. not healthy. you said he said the only reason you guys are together is for your kids?!??..........the writings on the wall there, one of you isnt working on your realtionship. would you both go to counseling?? good luck xoxo
Thanks for the well wishes. We planned to marry at the beginning but alot got in the way and it just never happend. We may get married in the next couple of months but it still won't change this restless feeling in my heart.
I think it is mainly me not putting alot of effort into the relationship. He is still quite upset with the way I've supposedly changed. The thing is there is no fighting in front of the kids they are asleep or at school when we discuss things.
Anyway I guess its up to me to fix our relationship since it seems Im the one ruining it. Thanks again!!!