Re: Can someone interpret this for me?
I just want to tell you something. I was out with this guy this weekend. Cute, nice guy-but we have always met in a group. He knows me from going out with a friend in the group, knows we broke up, and we have basically gone as far as just doing shots together a few nights--that's it.
Called him Friday to see what he was doing that night. He was tired, ended up calling me at 1:30 am to see if I was out, he woke up and got second wind. I was alseep anyway. Called him the next day to see what he was doing Saturday. We decided to meet at a bar to shoot some pool--his friend was in from out of town, but he asked me to come up.
Still--a group, friend thing--right? Well, he gave no indication that he was really into me--just friend stuff. ( he made a comment that the HS kids I teach must crap when I walk in...but friends could say that too--just giving a compliment)
Anyway--my point is--I was wondering too. SO--Later I told him, "You know, I have been really attracted to you for a while now. Did you know that?"
He was like, "NO! I didn't know that, but I am really, really glad you told me. I'm crazy attracted to you--but so is every other guy. I didn't think you'd give me the time of day. I just thought you were really cool, and kinda nice and fun with everyone, so I didn't say anything. Awesome." and he smiled.
We went on to have an awesome night. SO--Sometimes they really don't have a clue. I had even told this guy I thought he was cute before, bought him drinks on occasion, and rubbed his head(he's kinda shaved--it feels good. he he ) and he didn't know I was interested!!
Be direct. It works for me--and I'm a girl. Most of us like direct. The worst that can happen is she says she's not interested, right? C'mon!! Go for it. If she's not, move on-----NEXT!!