OK I need some explaining this one.
I have been doing very well the last couple of weeks concentrating on me after my breakup in May.
Well out of the blue my ex calls me today and I answered. Stupid me I was at work and thought it was one of our offices. Anyways we ended up talking for 25 minutes about life...problems....how i was and how he is. I tried to hang up on him but he kept talking and stupid me doesn't know how to be mean.
But he asked how I was doing and I told him I was doing great and he had some issues he wanted to bouncing off of me. Then towards the end of the conversation I found out that the girl is really only 20 years old. He is 32. He has three kids she has one and they are talking about having one together. So whatever...
Why is he still calling me if he claims to be ridiculously happy with this new girl. It doesn't bother me that he calls bc it hardly phases me. But he keeps referring to how good I was in bed and if situations were different would I still want to be around him and such. Then he goes on about how he wanted to come by my work for a sec for me to see the kids and for him to pick up the last of his stuff but I didn't have the stuff with me. Then I said well let me see the kids for a sec and he said he was on a tight scedule and had to get home to the new girl who is supposedly kinda living with him which is a big no no in front of his kids (as to why he wouldn't let me spend the night when we were dating) and a HUGE no no in his divorce papers.
Is he just wanting to keep me on the side which hurts like hell. But then why would he want me to see the kids and call me and talk to me for a long time mulitple times. Yet he says he is sooo happy with her.
I just don't get it. I know time heals everything but there is still a very small part of me that cares deeply for him but my friends think he wants to be able to "rescue" this other girl and I was out of his league (better than him). No one wants me to go back to him but why is he still keeping in touch?
Curiosity is great.....