came across this at a funnies board, part of 3 posts-nice guys, bad guys and being single; chk all that applies to you
I don't agree with some of it, but most of it IS me
...and yes, it is a generalization, as I'm sure there are women who appreciate nice guys(aren't there?)
caution: LOoong post.
WHY WOMEN HATE NICE GUYS
Nice guys are ugly! They haven't the air of sensuality about them
that bad guys do, because they just haven't had lives. Nice guys
think women are a 'special species' from another planet.
Nice guys suffocate their girlfriends, expecting them to be their
lovers, mother, sister, princess, china doll, and the Goddess who
brings up the sun in their mornings. They also expect their
girlfriends to be their best buddy, because 'real' guys won't have
anything to do with the geeks!
Nice guys sit there entranced by their girlfriends as the girlfriend
carries on the whole conversation by themselves. Nice guys haven't
lived so they have nothing to add to the conversation. Nice guys bore
women to death.
Nice guys stare at their girlfriends in total worship awe. Women find
it difficult to eat when they are being visually consumed by a
staring, mindless dope.
Nice guys quickly look at you when they do a social blunder (such as
fart) to see if you caught it. Who cares!
Nice guys pretend to be 'just our friend' and then go home and
fantasize about us mothering their 'nice guy' kids.
Nice guys have no real life or interest of their own. They sit around
and dream of getting a girlfriend to fill their empty lives.
Nice guys feel so undeserving of 'awesome you' that they make you feel
that you have, most assuredly, picked a real loser.
Nice guys think women are porcelain goddesses. Women don't want to have
to keep living up to a surreal image. If you belch in front of us we
Nice guys think that if a woman doesn't want to have anything to do
with their boring, empty shell of manlihood, they're stupid *******
who would rather be with a jerk that beats them. Yep, this is every
Nice guys are too STUPID to figure out that woman don't want to be the
leader on the dance floor.
Nice guys wear tucked in golf shirts and make a clean, straight part in
their hair, exactly two-inches above their left ear. This really turns
woman on. So sexy! Why can't Fabio and Brad Pitt take fashion and
grooming lessons from nice guys?
Nice guys sit there like passive puppies, waiting for their girl to
make all the moves. This is because woman love to feel undesirable.
Nice guys can fool our parents. They are often quoted by the respected
elder as being kind, loving, committed. Translation: Gay
Nice guys suck because you can't complain about them to your friends.
Dating a nice guy is like dating yourself. If you like Broccoli, he
likes Broccoli. If you hate Jay Leno, he hates Jay Leno. If you order
a Shirley Temple, he orders a Shirley Temple. If you are pro capital
punishment, he is pro capital punishment. If you think Austin Powers
was disgusting he thinks Austin Powers was disgusting. If you prefer
Kotex over Tampax...
Nice guys eventually turn into jerks too, so why not just date a jerk
right from the start and skip all that insecurity stage?
Nice guys laugh at your jokes...before you've even reached the punchline.
Nice guys quickly get emotionally attached. Sucking the life of you.
Nice guys eagerly show affection. Who can appreciate that of which they
didn't have to work for?
Nice guys are gentle, tender, pedal-soft lovers. Woman love this...
hopefully her nice guy will wake her up to let her know that he is
coming. "I'm not hurting you now, am I hon.?"
Nice guys will never, ever eagerly lust and devour your hot, throbbing
body or steamy, sweetened inner core. Nice guys can't hear your body
screaming, "hold me, touch me, RAVISH me! **** ME NOW!!!"
Hopefully, your nice guy will eventually turn into a jerk and cheat on
you (so someone else can endure his lack of lovemaking skills).
Nice guys will make you feel guilty if you spend a minute anywhere but
Nice guys will buy you flowers. Then ask you all evening long if you
Nice guys will never actually tell their girlfriends when they don't
like what she's doing. Instead, he will get mad about it six months
Nice guys are hideously insecure. Nice guys never do for you anything
for the simple sake of giving. Everything they do for their girlfriends
are like stock investments. The stock is up at Acceptance and Approval.
Each gift he gives you, or loving gesture he shows you, is really a
guaranteed down payment toward a future of him clinging to you like a
drowning man to a life-saver.
Nice guys are confused about romance. They either go overboard and
bring a dozen roses to a "lets go for a walk in the park" date...
or... they are so unsuave and unsure of themselves that they hang
around you, pretending to be your friend. Yep, I just love an
unconfident, self-doubting man.
Nice guys are so desperate to please that they have no identity of
their own. Ask a nice guy his thoughts on anything. Guess what? He
doesn't have any!
Nice guys are easily used. I just love a man I have no respect for.
Nice guys suffer from the "Night in Shining Armor" syndrome. They pick
out the sleaziest, "hard luck" cases to rescue. Moral of the story?
Wear condoms while sleeping thru the sex act with your nice guy.
Nice guys are so eager to please that they rarely speak up when
something bothers them. Thus, they can make their girlfriends feel
guilty when they say, "Everything I did, I did for you".
Nice guys truly think that they are making their girlfriends happy by
sacrificing their own life, desires, wants, needs, opinions, and
identities to that of their girlfriends. They can then claim that "no
one will ever love you as much as I do". Translation: "You are such a
*****, be grateful I'm willing to put up with you and love you anyway."
Nice guys make you their Life, their only source of happiness. Woman
love this burden placed on them.
Nice Guys really don't like themselves. Insecurity is not sexy, it is
suffocating, clinging and obsessive. Issues with nice men are unbearable.
Issues with jerks are workable.
I'll post the other 2 if ne1's interested