Originally Posted by Im_Robyn
Someone help me to understand why he would do such a horrable thing to me.
Because he's a man and he's ignorant to a womans body and the effects of having a child. I suggest you take him WITH you to your appointment and discuss, with your doctor AND husband, the risks and cons associated with having back to back pregnancies.
I'm sure he would not intentionally put your health, or that of another baby, in danger. I would safely assume that if he knew the risks, having heard it from a PROFESSIONAL (not you yelling at him after you found out about the condom), that he might wise up.
As for the insanity of having two enfants so close in age. Again, he's a man and he's ignorant to all it takes out of a women to be a good mother. Have you explained to him that you will essentially be pregnant for almost two years, and could be breast feeding for almost that long too?
It sounds like he is more oblivious to your being a wife and mother then being untrustworthy. Perhaps sitting him down in the presence of a mediator (counsellor) and wising him up to how insensitive and ignorant he is will help.
Men!! What boobs they can be!