Hi! I recently posted about my pending divorce and only mentioned "some" of the gory details. I am now faced with the situation of someday having to date again, something I have not done in over 20 years. Crazy as it may sound, my only child (son) wants me to date someone that has children. He's always wanted a brother / sister. Well, I think I'm a long ways off from the dating scene. However, when I get the courage to try it again, I will feel a little "gun shy" and not trusting due to my wife's three affairs. During our marriage I tried to do what a woman would like. For instance...
show affection / hold hands / cuddle, etc.
be a gentleman / hold doors open, etc.
buy cards & flowers for special occasions
take wife out to dinner on birthdays and for no occasion
wipe pee off of toilette per her demands
wipe excess water from bathroom sink / rinse tub (per her demands)
help set / clear table
take son to / from school
stay in good physical condition (almost 45, but told I look 35)
work full time job & own a business, too
pay all bills while wife keeps her money
I'm not perfect nor am I looking to be validated for anything I did to please my wife. But, what did I do wrong? What are women looking for in a good man? Am I old fashioned or something? I didn't smoke, do drugs, and hardly drank. I was not obnoxcious / judgemental / conceded. I think I have a pretty good sense of humor, too. So ladies, please, if I'm missing something, let me know. I want to improve on my weaknesses so that I can enjoy a relationship with a woman that will appreciate my character and qualities. I understand that everyone has different likes and needs, but I'm open to any criticism and advice. Thank you in advance.