Need some ideas on how to get my lover's wife to split with my lover so I can have him all to myself. Need something which will wind her up and them to argue and him in trouble, all anonymously!!! Any ideas appreciated. Ta!
Need some ideas on how to get my lover's wife to split with my lover so I can have him all to myself. Need something which will wind her up and them to argue and him in trouble, all anonymously!!! Any ideas appreciated. Ta!
Wel,, before the married women on this site crucify you and hang you out to dry, let me just say that, objectively speaking, when it comes to other peoples' free wills, there really isn't a lot you can do to change or alter another person's thinking. I'm sure there are many things you could do to start trouble between them, but if your lover only sees you as a spicy side dish but will never leave his meat and potatoes wife, he will only get angry with you for making waves in his marriage. You are the other woman. You have chosen that position for yourself. If you no longer wish to be the other woman, then really the only thing you can do is tell your lover the situation just isn't working out for you anymore, and move on to someone who is free and who you CAN have all to yourself without having to resort to trickery or conniving. If, on the other hand, you are convinced this man is your soul mate and you love him and he loves you and you are certain that you are destined to be together and you just can't live without him, then the only thing you can do is talk to him about a time table as to when he plans on leaving his wife and starting a life with you. Just a word to the wise, over the years, millions of women have grown old and ended up childless spinsters waiting for their married lovers to leave their wives. It hardly ever happens.
Wel,, before the married women on this site crucify you and hang you out to dry, let me just say that, objectively speaking, when it comes to other peoples' free wills, there really isn't a lot you can do to change or alter another person's thinking. I'm sure there are many things you could do to start trouble between them, but if your lover only sees you as a spicy side dish but will never leave his meat and potatoes wife, he will only get angry with you for making waves in his marriage. You are the other woman. You have chosen that position for yourself. If you no longer wish to be the other woman, then really the only thing you can do is tell your lover the situation just isn't working out for you anymore, and move on to someone who is free and who you CAN have all to yourself without having to resort to trickery or conniving. If, on the other hand, you are convinced this man is your soul mate and you love him and he loves you and you are certain that you are destined to be together and you just can't live without him, then the only thing you can do is talk to him about a time table as to when he plans on leaving his wife and starting a life with you. Just a word to the wise, over the years, millions of women have grown old and ended up childless spinsters waiting for their married lovers to leave their wives. It hardly ever happens.
Point taken...I am not naive about the stats on this working out, just looking for some ideas to speed things up...I am a good girl at heart! Please don't all gang up on me! lol
Point taken...I am not naive about the stats on this working out, just looking for some ideas to speed things up...I am a good girl at heart! Please don't all gang up on me! lol
Have you had a serious, nice long talk with your guy about the future? I think that would be job one. If he gave you the "my wife doesn't understand me, I'm going to leave her eventually" line, then you need to deal directly with him and find out what his plans are and what kind of future he sees with you. If his picture matches you, then you both decide on a time table that works for both of you. If he's unwilling to do this, then you'd be wise to stop wasting time and just move on.
Have you had a serious, nice long talk with your guy about the future? I think that would be job one. If he gave you the "my wife doesn't understand me, I'm going to leave her eventually" line, then you need to deal directly with him and find out what his plans are and what kind of future he sees with you. If his picture matches you, then you both decide on a time table that works for both of you. If he's unwilling to do this, then you'd be wise to stop wasting time and just move on.
I take it you ain't gonna help me with ideas then?
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