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Old 10-24-2005, 10:37 PM   #1
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Unhappy Leaving Update

As you all know, I'm still having trouble getting over the only guy I was ever serious with Well, dunno if anyone's read the end of my last thread, but I finally cut off all contact with Joe and it hurts. He wanted to have sex and I had to tell him no more than once and finally left. My parents are wanting me to get back in cotact with him to get my dishes, pots and pans back, I really don't want them back. They keep pushing me into getting them and I keep having to tell them over and over and over and over again that I really don't want to see him at all, cause I know that my brick house of emotions will come crumbling down. They cannot seem to grasp at the fact of how hard this is. Several times I've asked them to get the stuff or atleast ask him to bring them while I'm NOT home if they want it back so much. Both refuse, saying it's my responsibility. What can I do to tell them what kind of emotional bind they are putting me into? They already know what happened friday night but seem to not care.

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Old 10-25-2005, 09:38 AM   #2
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Re: Leaving Update

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Originally Posted by dreamcometrue
As you all know, I'm still having trouble getting over the only guy I was ever serious with Well, dunno if anyone's read the end of my last thread, but I finally cut off all contact with Joe and it hurts. He wanted to have sex and I had to tell him no more than once and finally left. My parents are wanting me to get back in cotact with him to get my dishes, pots and pans back, I really don't want them back. They keep pushing me into getting them and I keep having to tell them over and over and over and over again that I really don't want to see him at all, cause I know that my brick house of emotions will come crumbling down. They cannot seem to grasp at the fact of how hard this is. Several times I've asked them to get the stuff or atleast ask him to bring them while I'm NOT home if they want it back so much. Both refuse, saying it's my responsibility. What can I do to tell them what kind of emotional bind they are putting me into? They already know what happened friday night but seem to not care.
I think they care, I just think they are concerned that you are so willing to give up what is yours. because of this man. Maybe they believe it's not the pans that are important, but that they are YOUR pans. You have a right to them and shouldn't let your feelings get in the way of retriving them. Maybe you can explain to them that your feelings are to close to the surface right now and you can retrive them when you are more in control. I would also do so when he isn't there.

 
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