Re: im scared
I understand your worries, and I can go both ways on this issue. If it was me, and I really was in love, I would let go of all my reservations if I found out we were only related by marriage. If we were blood related, I don't know. I would probably feel the same way you do- very torn. Although everyone has a point that it's not even considered incest according to the Bible and some state laws, I would have to feel good about it in order to make a relationship work.
I suggest you find out how you are related. Can you ask your mother? Do you know his mother? Is she your aunt? Find a way to answer this question. It's not important just for the sake of the law or your mother, but it's important to YOU to have it answered.