Re: Relationship advice needed please
Here's what I think: You should either forgive him or move on.
I think it's totally possible for a relationship to heal, but not if you continue to resent him for the hurt he caused you. (And that's definitely not an attack against you. I can understand why you would feel that way.) If you're willing to let go of the hurt, then set boundaries for yourself and try again. If you are too hurt to forgive right now, then let him go and heal yourself.
Last edited by turtlebug; 12-19-2005 at 05:01 PM.