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Old 12-19-2005, 07:46 PM   #1
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Hey guys, I need your statistics

If you met a girl that you liked and you called her the second day after messing around and the called her once again the following and then didn't call her........would you call her the next?
Do you skip a day to not look desperate? Or does not calling mean your not really interested? What's some sure signs a guy is interested?

 
Old 12-19-2005, 07:53 PM   #2
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

You get called, they are interested. On one level or the next, takes some guts for most guys to call a girl.

 
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Old 12-19-2005, 07:59 PM   #3
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

So if he would want to see the girl again, when should he ask by? Wednesday for a date on Friday right? Anything after that is a booty call? Your thoughts.

 
Old 12-20-2005, 06:23 AM   #4
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

Soulcatcher--Don't think about it so much. If you want to call her, call her. I hate those rules that say you should wait X amount of time before and in between calling. Personally, I like when a guy calls me. I like to know he's interested.

 
Old 12-20-2005, 07:44 AM   #5
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

I think you should call ahead of time for a date. In other words, don't call on a Friday and ask her if she is free that night. I think if you want a date for Saturday, you should call by Wednesday. Otherwise, she may make other plans.

Yes, I do think if a man calls the same day, espeically late in the day, wanting to see a woman, it's a booty call.

 
Old 12-20-2005, 06:42 PM   #6
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

reddoorblack. I am the girl waiting for the call!!! hahaha. He was so adiment about wanting another date and now all of a sudden he's lying low. I did not hear from him today. If he does not call by Wednesday then I am going to blow it off. I didn't want to exchange phone numbers to begin with but so I didn't have to play games but now I guess I'm getting a complex because I thought he would call to get to know me more, don't you think? Who knows. I haven't had a date in six years. I'm 34 and it's all different.

 
Old 12-20-2005, 08:17 PM   #7
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

FWIW, i usually don't waste any time. i'd call the next day or if i got an email, i respond immediatedly..then again, i'm all by my lonesome so clearly that is NOT the thing to do..also, since you're the girl, i have a question for YOU: if the guy called the next day or emailed you the same day, would you be turned off claiming he's desperate???

 
Old 12-21-2005, 12:44 AM   #8
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

of course she would... girls want it one way,but can't stand it when it is that way

 
Old 12-21-2005, 01:04 AM   #9
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

degen95... I'm a girl and no, I wouldn't be "turned off claiming he's desperate if the guy called the next day or emailed me the same day". It just shows he's interested. It actually sort of turns me off when they don't call or email within a day or two.

 
Old 12-21-2005, 08:06 AM   #10
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

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degen95... I'm a girl and no, I wouldn't be "turned off claiming he's desperate if the guy called the next day or emailed me the same day". It just shows he's interested. It actually sort of turns me off when they don't call or email within a day or two.
I love it when a man calls me the next day, or even the same night, after a first date. I find it very flattering. I think most women do. If a guy waits too long to call, the woman will think he is not interested.

 
Old 12-21-2005, 03:05 PM   #11
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Re: Hey guys, I need your statistics

No, I want him to call me. I wouldn't be turned off. Maybe if I were younger around 20 but being 34 I don't want games. If I like him then lets hang out. He didn't call yesturday and so far not today either. He called the first two days and now no more. I don't get it! I didn't say anything to scare him.

 
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