Re: Advice! Please!
Sweetie, the question is, what information can he give you so you won't feel this way.
You have a child and being a single mother is not easy. I am a single mother and I have to give up a lot of things in life including 2 marriage proposals, traveling, jobs, etc. Please don't think I'm being harsh, but I think you came on this board to get some straight answers.
You have a child and that child comes first before anything, everything, and any man. I'm sure you know that. If this man you'd been with for 5 years cannot fit your child into "his" life, then he's not worthy of having you and your child in his life. It's obvious he knows about his child.
This man sounds selfish and you deserve someone better than that. If I were in your shoes, and I know I'm not, but I've gone through a similar situation before, I'd send him packing and make sure the door doesn't hit his a$$ on the way out.
Just my humble opinion.
Last edited by Fabat40; 12-21-2005 at 10:28 PM.