Re: Back together (how can I get an answer?)
It sounds like she needs time to think about it, just like she says. So, just wait it out. Don't call her anymore. I think she probably will get in touch with you. She sounds like she is still angry and is afraid to trust you again. Give her a chance to get over the anger. It may take some time. From what you have posted, it sounds like she does like you. All you can now is be very, very patient.
I have had men do that to me; one of them was sincere the last time he came back and wanted me to move in with him and the whole nine yards. But I was so fed up with his leaving and coming back that I just did not feel the same way when he finally did want to make a commitment. Our relationship was on and off for 3 years though, so the scenario is a little different. We would date for awhile and then go back out and date others, then he would call again and the whole thing would start over. I think the only reason I was able to deal with it at the time is because I wasn't quite ready for commitment myself and enjoyed being single.