Originally Posted by keepsgoin
I think that your GF wants you to ask her to marry her and make a date of marriage and DO IT!
My thoughts exactly. I mean, you haven't exactly acted the most responsibly lately have you? The poor thing had to suffer through alot. She was pregnant and you left her. Then another woman is involved... gee I'm surprised she even wants to talk to you. Of course she is going to have some resentment... you left her high and dry when she was pregnant. Just because you have made brief attempts at making things right doesn't mean that she should just be over all the hurt you caused. She is looking for a long term commitment from you that you really want to be with her. She is probably very insecure because of the way you have treated her and wants to feel some sort of security in the relationship. She wants to know where your intentions really lie. If you feel you can not commit, I would probably just walk away and let her find someone who loves her enough to want to share her life with her and give her the security she is looking for. If you really want to keep her... I mean, she is giving you the hints but you're not taking them!
In response to her family not liking you... are you kidding me? Can you blame them? I can't imagine any loving family would love a guy who got their daughter pregnant and then ran off to be with his ex... Maybe I just don't know all the details, but to me you are playing the victim, but the only person that can change things is YOU because you put yourself in this position.
In answer to your question though, unless you start taking responsibility, make some commitments, and mature to the point where you don't feel the need to run everytime things get tough... yes it probably is over. With 3 kids, she doesn't have time to play kiddy games or to wait for someone to grow up and know what they want from life and stop being afraid.