How to tell if someone is gay - Relationship Health Message Board

anonymouswreck · 12-28-2005, 01:33 AM

How can you tell if a female is gay? Are there signs?

sarakellieye · 12-28-2005, 02:06 AM

hi there, there can be signs but some women/men, if they have not come out yet or not even acknowledged it themselves yet, can hide it extreemley well.

Some of the signs could be lack of interest in the opposite sex,lack of interest in sex in general with a partner, wanting to experiement with the opposite sex in bed (although that is a hard one as some people just want to try that to see what it is like)

but to be honest if you are worried a friend or partner is gay then you should just ask with re-assurance that you will not get angry (if they think you will be very annoyied they would be probably more inclined not to tell you)

dewdrop333 · 12-28-2005, 12:53 PM

I agree with Sara, the only way to know for sure is to ask. Doing so in a way that is accepting and caring will probably be the only way to get an honest answer.

Sometimes people are gay but are not willing to accept that yet, some just arent ready for people to know that and some .. some will be out and content with themselves the way they are.

Ask your friend, its the only way to know for sure