, just have a problem here and would love to hear what you all think:
i met this guy in the bar last week, he was really nice and good looking,we were both looking over at each other all night untill we finally spoke, then me and my friend sat with him and his friend and had a some drinks.
we really hit it off
so after the bar he came back to my house for another drink (my friend was there too of course..can never be too carefull!!!) anyway me and this guy just talked all night, we really got on great and he said to me when he was leaving that he would like to take me out the day after Christmas, i agreed and gave him my number. so when he left i was really happy with myself, he even called me later that night to say good night.
then i didnt hear from him
, but i shrugged it off as it was Christmas and everyone is really busy with family ect..so on Christmas night i sent him a message, just something like ''hope your having a good Christmas'' and he wrote back straight away saying ''i am, i will call you tomorrow and we will go for that drink ok babe'' so needless to say i was still on cloud nine except he never called the next day........or the day after and maybe i was being silly but i was not about to contact him first again when he said he would call me. so then yesterday i just bite the bullet and sent him a message saying hi how are you? would you still like to go for that drink sometime. But he never replied.....
Now what i am wondering is: what did i do wrong? or did i do nothing wrong and he just decided that he was not really that interested in me? but why did he ask me out and bring it up again etc?
Its not that i am really that bothered with this guy..well yes it would have been nice to get to know him a little better as we got on so well but its just kind of annoying you know?like why did he act like that and then sunndenley change his mind?????
Any insight would be nice..i am just confused by his actions........Thanks guys!