Re: hes back 2rw
Why do I only hear about men being pursued? Girls! I know it is hard, but instead of chasing him, try to heal yourselves. It isn't going to be easy, but chasing him will make it much harder. The sad thing about females is that it is so easy to give their hearts away, and they feel deeper then males do, usually, and that is just the way we were made. Don't be angry with yourselves for things that you probably didn't even do. Don't be angry if it is taking a long time to heal. That is how it goes, even though it sucks. I was nineteen when I met my daughter's father. I had never had a date in my life, and didn't know much about relationships. This man was 29, ten years older than me. He told me he loved me, and because I was a naive virgin I believed him. Well, he turned out to be only separated from his wife and I turned up pregnant. He was gone the next day, and I was alone, after he had the elctricity turned off. I know what it feels like, and even though he treated me like trash, I still hurt over what he had done because I was in love, or what I thought to be love. Then after some heartbreaking encounters with him, I was starting to finally heal, when I spoke to a friend who told me that it sounded like I had been raped. I looked up information on acquaintance rape, and realized that he had date raped me. So after all that healing, the scar was ripped open again. And I am still trying to heal, and it is slowly getting done, while I have to deal with his family, and his wife who he got back together with. So heal yourselves, but make sure to not prolong it, because it is a long journey and very hard, and holding on to him makes the scar deeper.