Re: Did I do the right thing?
If you are looking for something permanent with having a bf, then it can be frustrating when the bf doesn't "cooperate". But he does have a right to not share things as he wishes. But if he tells you about them, but doesn't show them to you, and it bothers you, tell him that you don't want to hear about it. You don't have to necessarily break up with your bf, but you can slow things down a bit until he figures out what he wants. Maybe just enjoy each other's company as friends for a little while. You can't expect him to change when you want him to, but if he is willing, perhaps you can be supportive of the change on HIS time. Or just back off for a little while until you both figure out what exactly you want. It doesn't mean that you have to cut off all contact with him, but don't create something that isn't there.