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Old 01-04-2006, 09:10 PM   #1
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Maybe she is interested?

Good Evening, :-)

I have been working in an office for about 3 months now. There is a local restruent I go to a lot, and for a while I was going in everyday at the same time for lunch. There is a female who works there who always know's what I want, and is always very friendly to me. We both smile at each other. Well, Tonight we were behind on e-mails at work and 3 of us stayed late, well, I was hungry so I ran up to the restruent to grab something to eat to take back to work.

This was the first time I've been up there in about 2 weeks because of the holiday's. I wasn't expecting her to be working tonight. Well, I walked into the restruent and of course, not many people there and I hear a girl yell at me. I turned around and there she was sitting there eating. What's so weird is she was not even working, she said she was just there eating. We talked for a few min's, I learned she was going through college, worked there for 6 years, she noticed something on my car and asked about it, and she also told me what times she works. I really wanted to join her since she was sitting there alone, but I had to get back to work before they locked up the building.

My question is... Could she be interested? She seems really nice but I've also noticed she is really nice to a lot of people.. but she wasn't even working (She said she works 6-3 PM everyday, It was 7:30 PM at night!)

My other question is.. What should I do from here? I'm very interested in her, I find her attractive and her personallity is great :-) I would really love to learn more about her and I would like to get her number or e-mail address so we can talk more because it's really hard for either of us to talk while at work.

Any Suggestions?

Thanks in advance for your help!

-Michael

 
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Old 01-04-2006, 09:27 PM   #2
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Re: Maybe she is interested?

From your post it seems like she could definelty be interested in you! Especailly if she went out of her way to get your attention when you came in to grab a bite and she wasnt working! I would go for it ask her out- for cofee or dinner whatever you feel most comfortable doing! Good luck!

 
Old 01-04-2006, 09:32 PM   #3
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Re: Maybe she is interested?

She sounds interested. Ask her if she'd like to go out this weekend (or next) and she'll probably give you her phone number.

 
Old 01-04-2006, 09:45 PM   #4
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Re: Maybe she is interested?

Thanks :-)

Yeah, I have a feeling she is interested... She didn't see toooo happy when I left tonight. I really wanted to sit with her and talk for a few min's but like I said... I had to get back to work :-(

As I was walking out, I said "You have a good night!" And she said "Okay" Kinda softly. I think she may have been a little disappointed I didn't stay and talk.

If I didn't volunteer to work overtime, I would've been able to stay, but then again, I wouldn't have been there in the first place because I would've ate a home instead!

I really believe everything happens for a reason... and maybe tonight happened for a reason. I thought today seemed a little "weird" in the first place.

I'm just thinking of the best way to ask her out... I don't want her to think I'm some creep or something... lol :-P I think I will be taking lunch eairly tomorrow though to go there! :-)

 
Old 01-05-2006, 01:54 AM   #5
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Re: Maybe she is interested?

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Good Evening, :-)
My question is... Could she be interested? She seems really nice but I've also noticed she is really nice to a lot of people.. but she wasn't even working (She said she works 6-3 PM everyday, It was 7:30 PM at night!)

My other question is.. What should I do from here? I'm very interested in her, I find her attractive and her personallity is great :-) I would really love to learn more about her and I would like to get her number or e-mail address so we can talk more because it's really hard for either of us to talk while at work.
-Michael
She's definitely interested. She notices what you like to eat, that little something about your car, gets sad when you have to go, and probably a lot more. The light is green and will soon switch to yellow, then red, so make your move if you like her.

If you're still not sure, you can flirt with her a little and see how she reacts. If she responds positively, ask her out.

 
Old 01-05-2006, 06:08 AM   #6
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Re: Maybe she is interested?

Next time you see her, ask her would she like to go with you one evening to try a different restaurant. You should find out then whether she's interested or not. Give her your business card, and put down any special numbers with which she can contact you.

wb

 
Old 01-05-2006, 06:27 AM   #7
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Re: Maybe she is interested?

First off how old are you and how old is she. I used to work in a restaurant and I was really friendly to everyone...some people might have mistook it for flirting but it was just being friendly. I would just mention where you work and drop little hints. Then again I can't say much...I wrote a letter to my daughter's 3rd grade teacher that I really like and in the letter it stated how much I liked him. She gave it to him just yesterday but I am stressing out because I thought if he liked me he would have responded in some way already. I am impatient. If your age difference is a lot then no offense she is probably just being nice. Lots of women love men dressed up in a collar and tie too. She could just be harmlessly flirting. Believe me if a woman likes a guy she will eventually let him know. I dropped hints to my daughter's teacher for five months now...he just either never got it or does not like me in the same way. I just hope my man responds. Anyway my advice to you...let her make the first move there is nothing more irresistible then a guy who plays hard to get!

 
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