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Old 01-10-2006, 02:34 PM   #1
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Unhappy Stressed

The past couple of weeks me and my boyfriend seem to be getting in a lot more fights (disagreements,little things) and im wondering what it could be from.. does everyone get this way further into their relationship once they get more comfortable or is this just a stressful time because my boyfriend in a month is leaving for three months and there was christmas and exams and a lot of things, what's going on?

 
Old 01-11-2006, 06:42 AM   #2
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Re: Stressed

yes any relationship can be beautiful but none can be perfect and that is my exact quote from my heart.
disagreements are normal...when they get out of control that is when it is not normal and i believe that there are things to do to make it work...
listen to the needs of your lover...and make sure they listen to yours as well.


time can either make or break a person and thats why communication and trust needs to be of value and respect in the relationship.

 
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Old 01-11-2006, 07:47 AM   #3
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Re: Stressed

hi,

I have been seeing my boyfriend 3 years and we always have disagreements but its ok,i mean yes you may love this man/he loves you/ you may get on fantastically most of the time and have alot of common interests but i believe there is no way that you would have the exact same views/interests/likes/dislikes/moods etc as each other.

if this is not the 100% norm for your relationship then yes it could be from the stress of holidays/exams etc but if you are worried about the way this is going then talk to him.

just rememebr that relationships dont just magically work out perfectley, they are about comprimise and communication.

i personally have disagreements with my bf (never usually seriosus) and we might not talk for 20 mins next thing we would be best friends again, but saying that, there are also other times that the sillyest thing can turn into a proper argument but what we do is give each other a cooling off period and most importantley tlak about it once we have calmed down, if either of us ever feels things are getting to heated in an argument then we willwalk away so as not to say something stupid that we regret later...

Last edited by Aalyisha; 01-11-2006 at 07:50 AM.

 
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