i've been seeing a guy i've known for a while and like we're def into each other but i'm going back to school soon. i like him enough that i dont want him to find a new girl while im back at school. but i think its selfish to assume he wants a relationship bc he just got out of one, plus im not putting my life on hold for him so why should he for me. he's just such a great guy that im scared someone else will catch his eye and when i get home from school in the spring he wont want to hang out and be w/ me anymore...

what should i do? idk if im the only girl he's dating right now either. but i assume i am bc its obvious he likes me...ahflksajf help.