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Emilysmommie05 · 01-18-2006, 10:56 AM

If you have read my previous posts please read this too. He called me again last night and keeps tellling me how he wants to work things out then he tells me that we will see what happens after i didn't break down and cry, he thinks since i wasn't crying and all upset that i don't care about his feelings, i do but i am just so fed up right now i could scream!! HE keeps going back and forth with this he wants to work it out but then i see my best friend and then he dosen't because he says i broke his heart. I just don't understand. Should i just tell him i am done and be done with it?

Hiya · 01-18-2006, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Emilysmommie05

If you have read my previous posts please read this too. He called me again last night and keeps tellling me how he wants to work things out then he tells me that we will see what happens after i didn't break down and cry, he thinks since i wasn't crying and all upset that i don't care about his feelings, i do but i am just so fed up right now i could scream!! HE keeps going back and forth with this he wants to work it out but then i see my best friend and then he dosen't because he says i broke his heart. I just don't understand. Should i just tell him i am done and be done with it?

Only if you want off this merry go round he has you on. Ask yourself this: Why is this only about his feelings, what he wants, what he needs, what he thinks? Why don't your feelings, your side of it, your needs, why doesn't any of that matter?

GypsyArcher · 01-18-2006, 01:05 PM

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Should i just tell him i am done and be done with it?

YES! (I actually shouted "Yes!" at my computer screen).

I am sorry, but this guy is P-S-Y-C-H-O. He wants to see you cry and beg and break down when he tells you he isn't sure he wants to be with you anymore? Hon, this guy is trying to control you. Look very hard, you have to be able to see this!! Please, please, please do not get involved with him again, ever. Hiya is right, it is all about HIM. Whatever the reason, immaturity or sociopathic-ness, he is not able to be in a mutually-loving relationship because he is unable to truly care about another person. He wants a girlfriend who will live in fear of him and exist just to make sure he is happy. You do not want this. Nothing is going to change.

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