Originally Posted by Emilysmommie05
The only reason i lied was because his ex was always hanging around because she was friends with his cousin and she was always flirting with him and it was making me jealous and he did not seem to care so i wanted him to feel the way i did, i know it was dumb but i was only 16!! I didn't think it would blow up into this whole big thing, i regret it but i still don't think it should end a relationship and then for him to tell me who my friends can be? It makes me mad, i do love him i smile ever time i see him, but i just don't think he is right in the head! He dosen't seem to understand how bad it would hurt to lose my best friend and he does not seem to care.
Have you ever even considered the possibility that maybe, if he allows his ex girlfriend to flirt with him right in front of you, and not care about how you feel about it, and makes unrealistic, unreasonable demands of you, that maybe perhaps, he's just not the right guy for you? Doesn't it feel like you're trying to cram a square peg into a round hole? Sometimes, it's just not right, and no amount of reasoning, talking, understanding or explaining can make it right. I think you really need to take a minute and make room in your head and heart for that possibility, for your own sake and happiness.