Originally Posted by Emilysmommie05
should i wait it out and tell him after i get all this BS straightened out?
Yes, I'd strongly suggest, for your own sake more than anyone else, to wait until you get everything else straightened out.
Have you ever that "don't open another door until you've closed the first" saying?
Your emotions are all over the place right now. (And, yes, it's understandable). But getting involved in another situation before you get your emotions straightened out is pretty much dooming it from the beginning.
Are you sure you really
have feelings for this guy, or is it a way to "cover up" the problems you are dealing with over your ex? I really think you should work through all those things first, so you can find the true answer. Because if it is a cover up - eventually it's going to stop working and you will be left with the same problems because you've never dealt with them.
And if you do really care about this other guy, it's not fair to him.