I can't tell you how to live you life...only say what's happened to me and some warnings. First of all, do you love your husband...if the answer is yes, I would suggest that you make it work with him. If the answer is NO then there's no sense trying to make things work. Another thing, do not ignore the warning signals about your BF if there are any. Pay attention to how he is, what he does and the kind of man he is...etc. Is there any drug or alcohol use that may be a problem. It's so easy to ignore stuff when you feel like you are madly in love with someone. There were things about my BF that I am having problems accepting now but totally ignored them when we were just seeing eachother. Now that we live together and it's "real life", those things are there. Don't get me wrong, he's a very good man and actually he's a more moral man than my husband was. But the fact remains that I really miss my husband and mostly my old boreing life I used to have. I miss the relationship I used to have with my family. Remember that more than likely the passion that you feel with your BF won't last forever and you'll probably be feeling like sex isn't all that great with him at some point too. If I could go back and do it all over again, I would have stayed with my husband. Being friends with my EX doesn't help me to get over leaving him at all. Not talking to him didn't help either. When I was wanting to be with my BF, I didn't care what anyone else thought about it, nothing anyone would say could have changed my mind...I just wanted to do what I thought was going to make me happy. Try to see the future in a practical light. Any other questions?
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