Re: Too Sensitive or not?
Can I ask how old you are? It sounds like you have a tendency to worry a lot--are you sure you're not overthinking things and looking for problems, or do these issues really bother you a lot? I'm not trying to diminish your concerns, but if you are happy in the relationship in all the other important respects, I wouldn't allow anything negative to detract from that. You have the ability to choose what you focus on, and it only hurts you and your relationship when your energy is directed at anything but the positive aspects of something. However, if you are generally unhappy and these are just a few examples of why, that's a whole different story, so I think you should give some serious thought to whether or not you are content and fulfilled in the relationship as a whole, and proceed accordingly. Then again, I'm not a very sensitive person myself, and I tend to think that a lot of people analyze things too much and create headaches for themselves which are avoidable, so please don't be offended by my advice and be sure to take it with a grain of salt. Good luck, take care, and best wishes!