husband married to me living with me and engaged at the same time
well i founf out last night that my husband who left me in january gave the **** a diamond for christmas while we were still with each other and his family and friend's all knew about it another thing i found out is that she is also pregnant you know this is so bad this woman knew me for 5 years and so didn't her whole family they all know that i am sick and can't work and so doesn't his family and everyone just went along with everything he did no one ever told me what was going on i feel like such a fool i really don't know how to get past this the more i find out im just so hurt by all the deceit that has gone on
Re: husband married to me living with me and engaged at the same time
I say...call a locksmith and have the locks changed!! Pack all his stuff up (if you can't do it yourself then hire somebody to help you) and leave it outside. Kick him to the curb and let his new fiance have him....all of him!!! f she wants his sorry a$$ then good riddens!! And be glad that he's no longer your headache....but her's!! And, Spider, you put that chin up high and know that you're much better off without a man who would do such a thing to you!!
The best revenge would be to find your own happiness without him!!!
Re: husband married to me living with me and engaged at the same time
oh he is not living with me trust me on this im not that stupid i will be getting spousal support and he has to pay all my bills including past medical bills which would be around 50 grand it's just the more i hear the more it hurt's all these people coverd for him i feel like such a fool and i can't figure out how to get past that feeling i am very hurt that none thought enough of me to come to me and be honest when they all knew
Re: husband married to me living with me and engaged at the same time
spider believe me I know how you feel.
when I was married, my in-laws helped my husband move out one day when I was at work. I had just spent Thanksgiving with them the week before and they all acted as normal as pie, yet they knew what he was planning.
My advice, turn your back on the people who are on his side. You don't need them. With friends like that, who needs enemies.
Oh and in time it will come back to make you smile. My ex-sister in law called a few years back when she was getting a divorce, complaining about how the other sister in law is treating her (her husbands sister). I just kinda chuckled and said, yeah it's amazing isn't it, how people can turn their back on you?
Take comfort in the fact that after he pays thru the nose, he won't have much money left. Like they say, love is grand, divorce is 50 grand.
hang in there, you will survive.
Last edited by rosequartz; 03-21-2006 at 10:35 AM.
Re: husband married to me living with me and engaged at the same time
Hi Spider
What is wrong with people today? Has values and vows and integrity become extinct? I am sorry about your situation. Another fine example of a woman (your husband's girlfriend) who gives other women who has self-respect and dignity a bad name. One advice, do not give in to anything he requests. Do not show him any mercy in court and hurt him where it counts, his pocket. He did not show you mercy and you are sick. I will be thinking about you.
Re: husband married to me living with me and engaged at the same time
So true. The nerve of this jerk and his girlfriend just blows my mind! But that's ok....karma will come back and bite 'em both in the a**! In the meantime, you rake is butt over the coals and get all you can out of it! He has hurt and humiliated you beyond belief! Don't take is crap anymore...you can find so much better! Good luck honey..we're all here backin' you up!
Re: husband married to me living with me and engaged at the same time
thanks every one for the support it's takeing a whole lot of self control for me not to go there and kick the crap out of both of them lol it also really bother's me how evryone coverd for him but you know what they will all get misery in there live's for what they have done to me then they will all know just how miserable i have been feeling i don't understand how they can live with themself's knowing what they did to me these are people who have known me for at least 13 years i guess i was just to soft hearted and trusting it's people like them that turn woman like me sour i will never trust again
