On the face of it, I have quite good realtionship with my husband, but it is all just a cover up. We have been together for 17 years and have 3 kids together.we have had some behaviour problems with our son, which led to our daughter also having some issues,but that has improved lately.
My problem is that I feel like I am either living with my brother or my Dad. My husband is forever picking fault with the things I do, he even corrects me in public places, which is embarrasing. he never really shows me any love, and we haven't had sex at home for 2 years,the last time was almost a year ago on holiday. I just cannot bring myself to approach him for even a cuddle,as I am scared he will reject me.
We just seem to plod on for the kids sakes, but I am desperate for more than this, it is really getting me down. I have put on a bit of weight over the years, so i don't know if that is the reason.
Any advice would be appreciated.