Re: please help
He said he wanted to take things slow. You say you want to spend the rest of your life with him. Making that type of decision is not taking things slow on your part. I think he's being clear that he's not that into you. You even know he doesn't love you. Aguy can like a girl and not really have any more intentions than a little bit of fun once in awhile. So, at this point, you can accept that he doesn't love you and move on, or you can wait for something that will probably never come and set yourself up for even more heartbreak. You've only invested 5 months in this relationship so far. That isn't that long. I would move on if you're looking for something more committed. Plus, he will probably move away soon. You're seeing him less and less and he doesn't seem to mind, right? So, that's a sign that things aren't going to progress. Heartbreak is just a part of life. I know it hurts and it seems like it won't go away. But, it will go away with time. He's probably just not the right one. If he is, then he'll find his way back to you, but if he's not, you don't want to be sitting around waiting for him. You need to be ready for when 'the one' does come around. I don't think it is him.