Hi all! Hope you all are doing well. I have a problem similiar to Baby_hands and wanted some help.
I have known this guy for a year and a half and became close to him about the first of this year. He is 36 and I am 24. He has had two past relationships one that last 6 years and was engaged and the other that lasted a year where both girls tried to force marriage on him.
He told me does want to get married and have kids.
We went out to dinner and few times and did lunches a few times. We have emailed and talked on the phone a lot. He tells me alot about his life and work and always seems to enjoy talking to me. I asked him back in May what his thoughts about a relationship would be. He was a bit shocked and said he really liked how things were, that there were no expectations or pressure. That he thoroughly enjoyed talking to me. Then he made an inside joke to me about meeting in pj's for a glass of wine. (It's a joke that has been going on for a while that started one night when we both had had a bad day.)
He has since opened a business with some buddies on the side that actually opened yesterday. So between that and his day job he has been very busy but has made sure I knew what he was doing and everytime we talk he fills me in on as much as he has time for at that moment.
I told him one day I was gonna kidnap him and take him on a day trip so he could slow down and relax because we both have been very busy with our jobs. He told me that the thrid weekend in October would be great depending if the store takes off.
I am just really confused. He always seems to confide in me. I guess I am just wondering if this could ever turn in to more or am I just hopelessly dreaming?