hello every-one
For those of you that were following my saga about previous boyfreind troubles will be glad to know that we finnally ended it for good. It was tough but I know it was for the best and I have moved on.
Now there is a new man on the horizan (possibly )
He is someone that I was somewhat aquanted with about five years ago, at that time I found him attractive but I was in a relationship...so was he ....anyway there was never anything to it.
Recently he has come around again, I still find him interesting and attractive.I asked him if he was in a relationship, and he said yes, but that it wasnt going well and that he is planning on leaving her. Later in the conversation he asked me out. A few days later he brought me a little gift.
I know the answer here, but I'm just double checking with you guys....This guy isn't leaving his girl, he just wants to get laid ? Correct ? Your thoughts will be aprreciated .
This guy isn't leaving his girl, he just wants to get laid ? Correct ?
Hey there. Yeah, I'd have to say that pretty much sums it up.
Tell him if he wants to date you, then he's going to have to be single first. But then again, you already know that he has no trouble asking another woman out even while he already has a girlfriend. So maybe it's good that you learned this little tidbit about him.
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The grass is always greener on the other side...until you get closer and see that it's astroturf~
I would say make it clear to him that friendship is all your interested in, when a guy is in a relationship!
If you were to refuse sex with him, (if of course that were to happen), if he then were to disappear, you will know that you were right, and that was all he was after.
....I asked him if he was in a relationship, and he said yes, but that it wasnt going well and that he is planning on leaving her. Later in the conversation he asked me out. A few days later he brought me a little gift.
....This guy isn't leaving his girl, he just wants to get laid ? Correct ? .....
Yeah..We bad. We like to sample the goods before we buy. But at least he was honest about having a current GF.
And Rosequartz scares me at times that she thinks of these things the way us guys do.