How do you know?!
I know this topic has come up before on these boards, but I could use a little help. I laugh at myself because in all other aspects of my life I can maintain my sanity, however,when it comes to men I lose all of it...lol! Anyways, I met this guy, I'd say, three weeks ago. We seem to have it off really well. We have gone out once. Mostly, that is due to scheduling, his work schedule and mine. He is in the military so he has to leave for jobs around the country. Now, my question is how do you know if he is into you and maybe wants more than friends? I have been able to figure out that he is a man of his word. If he says he's going to call or write he does. I ask because any male friend I have had that is strictly a friend I would maybe only talk to him once a week at most or I would go longer not talking to him. Now, with this guy we talk about every other day. He actually called me at work yesterday and left a message. I found out last night when I called him late that he wanted to go to dinner. I thought he was working late so I didn't call him till late anyways. I'm just confused that is all. I really like him. I know take it slow let it develop at its own pace, but I'm having a hard time reading this one. I mean this is how my relationship with my ex started out. We were extremely close friends. Guess, I am just looking for a males perspective. If you are interested in someone do you call that often and how do you distinguish between wanting to be friends or more? Anyways, sorry for the rambling, any input would be greatly appreciated. Ciao!