Originally Posted by Ravelo
How do I talk to him with out the major arguements!
You ask for advice, and I have one piece of advice that is also wisdom (because I have been there)...
You cannot talk him out of the arguments. His problem isn't you, or anything that you do. His problem is the damage that was done to him emotionally long before you ever met him. You cannot "fix" him.
The only thing you can do is choose to have a relationship with a man who is capable of having a healthy one.
This one cannot. He is "passive-aggressive". He takes his anger out on you that goes back to issues with his parents.
You cannot change anything about him. You cannot "love" him enough to change him.
I understand that you love him. That doesn't make your relationship a healthy one for you...
Please realize that you are better than this and keep him in your heart but OUT of your life...