Interpretation from guys needed please
I'm a 40 yr. old woman, met this really sweet guy (41) this summer through our mutual softball leagues but didn't act on anything because I was supposed to move out of state. Recently, I made the decision to stay (nothing to do with him). When I told him this (only 2 weeks ago), he was very happy, hugged me and told me he was happy I was staying and gave me a quick kiss on the lips. Previous to that, we had gone to a party of a mutual friend and it appeared there was a mutual attraction at that time.
The night that I told him I was staying, a few friends went to a bar and afterwards he walked me to my truck. Keep in mind he only had a few beers and I had had none. He kissed me and there was definitely some passion but that's all that happened. The next morning we met for breakfast before I went off to my softball tournament and it was really nice.
He came to watch my team play in some playoff games the following Monday night and then he called me on Thursday during lunch to find out if I was free on the weekend (this past weekend) and that maybe we could go out to dinner or some drinks. I told him jokingly that since I was supposed to be in another state at this time, that I was pretty much free and that I would really like to get together. So he said he'd have to check his work schedule (I know this for a fact - he works two jobs - which is impressive - and his second job causes him to work some nights including weekends).
From that I assumed he would call to let me know whether or not it was a go. It is now Tuesday and I have not heard anything. I even called him on Saturday and his brother-in-law said he was sleeping because he had worked all day.
Am I making more out of this than I should? He is known as the nicest, most kind-hearted man and funny, I'm thought of the same way so I thought it would be a great start. Now I just have a feeling something changed but we haven't had that much interraction to begin with so I'm left very very confused. Did he blow me off and if so, why?
One of my friends said maybe he got scared because things were going so well so quickly and that actually happened to me once before - that I'm so "nice" and the guy said our date was so perfect that he got scared off and didn't call me for over a year to apologize.
If that's it, is it worth being nice?? I'm so confused. I really like this man.