Re: help me
Sorry for the lost of your child.
What should you do about the wife???? Well, sometimes news from a stranger is better than a friend..so, I say, from what you've written, the wife doesn't sound to stable. A child from another relationship, a miscarriage with your child and she has another male in her life. Are you positive it was your child, Ryan? How long has she been having an affair? I'm sure you weren't expecting to hear this but maybe it's something you should ask yourself and her. She won't answer the phone..go knock on the door.
If she's been having an affair for a while, I'd suggest admitting you made a mistake, taking time to repair yourself and finding a woman, not a girl, that will apprectiate you.
Best of life...