Re: Seeking for advise-Urgent
By getting involved with a married man, you can expect nothing from him in regards to time and committment. You can really only expect sex, because for the man, that is all he was seeking when he became involved with you. I think that this married guy has moved on. He said he will keep the memories he shares with you in his heart -- the key word there being "memories." Memories are in the past, and so is your relationship. It is time for you to move on. Don't spend your birthday with him --- what would you get out of it? Just one day -- one more day of false hope. Don't spend your birthday doing that to yourself.
How about spending your birthday with the friend you mention? I'm sure your friend has been there for you and done more for you than the married guy could ever do. Do you have a bunch of girls to get together with? During times like this, when we experience heartbreak, us women must stick together and support each other.
I really don't think you should call married guy again. Instead, go out with your friends and start searching for a man who is single. It is time for you to move on! Time will heal your lonliness and broken heart. Make your birthday a new beginning for you.