Unless you're married to this man, there's really no reason for you to stay, is there?
From all the things I've gone through life, one of the things I almost always do is I don't stay no longer than a whip of wind in a place where I'm unwanted, especially in a relationship. Hon, if he doesn't appreciate the wonderful person that you are, then walk out and walk away. Life is too short to be in a situation like yours.
We are all different (thanks heavens, otherwise, this would be one boring world). Let him find someone as wonderful as you and just to be fair, go find someone who would appreciate your organized personality. I'm organize, I drive my husband crazy sometimes, but you know what, he discovered that he can find things where they belong. Like pots and pans in the kitchen cabinets or his socks in his dresser.
And then he throws me that big, warm smile and I know he just loves that quirky part of me.