I guess it depends on what the mistake was, how willing he is to move on from it and forget it, and how certain you are not to repeat it.
In regards to regaining trust. I guess you regain it by being consistent and giving them no new reason to distrust you.
Wish I could be of more help, but u didnt leave too much to go on.
OK your right..... it just im in a very bad mood right now
Its kinda a long story ...... In a nut shell I had an inappropriate convo with my ex and my now bf found it and wasnt happy... I realize this is a form of cheating. Also i dont deny it at all. I know i made the mistake. I want him to forgive me. We are so close to our one year anni. I dont want to lose him.
The only suggestion I can give with the information you provided is to sit down and talk with him. Explain why the conversation happened with the ex, why you feel bad about it and also why it won't happen again. Don't hide anything, just lay it all out on the table and be honest. He may need a little time to think things through, but most of all, let him know that it's not going to happen again, you knew you were mistaken, and want him to forgive you for it eventually and move on with your relationship.
you came here looking for advice. if you dont like what people may or may not say to you, then dont post. as simple as that.
if you were my girlfriend, i would kick you to the curb. no offense, i dont know you of course, but that trust is not easy to build back up.
you shouldnt fear you are losing him, you ARE losing him because you made a mistake. honestly, i dont blame him for wanting to leave, sorry.
She came into this thread talking about something i said in another thread and at no point did she give me advise in that or this thread alot of people have gave me advise and it wasnt always what i wanted to hear but i took it and for my MISTAKE im only human and i live up to it every living day of my life
I don't think you will ever be able to have a trusting relationship with this guy. There is no way for anyone who feels cheated on to ever trust the other person 100%. Even trusting someone 90% is not enough...
Besides, if your having those types of conversations with another guy then I believe that you don't truely love your boyfriend.