Is there a way to fix how i go about relationships?
I have a problem. I am an extremely affectionate person, so when Im single, I just dont feel nearly as good when I have someone to trade affection with. I avoid one night stands and casual sex because I like to have an emotional connection. The problem is, I feel uncomplete without a girlfriend, and am always on the hunt when Im single. This results in alot of relationships and in turn, alot of disappointments. With every failure, i get more and more spiteful and angry with the way Im consistently lied to and led on.
I tend to become more and more "evil" with every failed relationship. I get jaded, uncaring, sarcastic and pessemistic about relationships, and this just attracts more girls for some stupid reason. So I keep getting more relationships, then more lies and disappointment, and more anger...you see where this is going.
I dont want to be one of those guys in theor 30s thats a self righteous woman hater, so the way I see it, if I can find a way to stop needing affection, it'll stop setting off this chain of events. Should I see a counselor? Talk to a friend? get hypnotised or something?
Im just sick of feeling empty when Im on my own, wary when Im taken, and hateful when Im lied to and used. Any advice?