Break up or make up?
Ok...I dont know where to start really cos theres so much going on in my head. I love my boyfriend very much and for the most part he's a great boyfriend but lately everything is going balls up. I am just startin a new job and living back home with my parents but he's now in his last year at uni and living the uni life. It bothers me that he goes out a lot and acts like it's the most important thing, sometimes i think it's more important than me to him. Neway I think things would be a lot better for us and i wouldnt feel so insecure if he was more open with me (recently found out he tells me little white lies so i dnt worry but in the end i only worry mor cos i know he's lying) and acted a bit more caring. Since bein back at uni he hasnt once mentionned our anniversary which is fast approachin and when i asked he said it's cos he doesnt have time to think bout it...I find that hard to accept as he has the time to plan nights out, go out 3 nights or more a week etc, so y cant he take one of those nights to plan our anniversary? neway I have been tryin not to nag him bout the things i worry about but thats jus resulted in a lot of tension which caused be to blow up at him last week about how goin out is so damn important to him he dont seem to care bout me nemore and i dont think he's really been acting like a boyf of three years as he only thinks bout himself. I said a lot of dum things cos i was boiling over, now he wants a big relationship talk and says he thinks we could break up. I know we r incompatible sometimes but I cant stand the idea of throwing a 3 year rel down the drain for something fixable. Im scared bout what he's gonna say, how do i explain that i want us to stay together? It hurts to think of not bein wiv him but then if he cant accept what im sayin ie he needs to be more caring/thoughtful then i cant see any other option.