Re: Need some advice on a weird situation
I had a similar situation. I realized I was totally falling in love with him. And he had been making similar comments to me, so i thought he must have been feeling something toward me as well.
I finally took a chance and kissed him one night. That was back in January and we've been dating ever since. I love this man more than I've ever loved anyone else in my life. And the reason why we have such an amazing relationship is because we were friends first. Best friends. And we make a really great team. He's honestly the best thing that's ever happened to me in my life, and I'm so, so, SO happy that I took the chance to let him know how I really felt about him. It turns out he felt the same way about me too.
So, because of how it turned out for me, I ALWAYS encourage the person in my former position to take a chance. If he rejects you, but does it in a nice way, then you can try to still remain friends - knowing though that it will be very hard to see him with any other girl. That was why I had to act fast in my situation, i was terrified that he was going to find someone else before he gave me a chance.
You guys I'm telling you, it was the best thing I ever did, kissing him first. I don't regret it at all because I have never been in such an awesome relationship. And I've never dated such an amazing and wonderful guy who is literally my dream come true. We'd still be just friends if I never made that move, so it was absolutely the right thing to do for me.