Wow your internet short hand make your post really hard to read. Next time can you try to write in a language that everyone can read without guessing?
So you find out your wife is cheating. Did you also cheat? You must still care for her to be staying with her after all that. If you don't, I strongly question why you are still with her.
You should maybe have a serious conversation with her about why she is doing the things she's doing. Maybe even talk to a marriage counselor. You guys have a lot of trust issue to work out before continuing the relationship.
