well I've avoided calling my ex for over a week now and she started calling me Saturday night and Sunday night. I picked up the phone on Sunday and she hung up, only to call me ten minutes later. I haven't called back and don't plan on it because thing have gone to far. I am curios about what she has to say but at the same time feel like it is pointless to talk at this time. I really don't want to come of as being mean but what other choice do I have?
I don't think that it would be "mean" of you to not answer. Don't you have voicemail? Wait for her to leave a message because after several unanswered calls I would think she'd leave a message if she needed to tell you something. It seems very immature of her to call you like that when she basically broke up with you.
That's what I don't understand. Why would she call me if she broke up with me? I am sure she misses me but hey... that's what happens when you break up with someone.
There is no way I could ever be around her sister and not say anything after she called me and disrespected me last week. If thing had not gone that far I might feel differently, but after that phone call from her sister I wouldn't be able to look myself in the mirror if I acted like that was okay.
Why did you pick up the phone??? You should never have picked up the phone!!
Nevermind. The point is that there is nothing more to say, it's over, done. Finished. It doesn't matter what she has to say at this point, all of it is completely irrelevant.
You need to change your number and block her from your email. The only way you will be able to get past this and start over is to never speak to her again. Why are you putting yourself through this? It's pointless drama.
Change your number now before she tries to call again!