Re: please help me !!
This DOES sound dodgy, but what sounds dodgier is the fact that he said he was going to leave you after work? Just for confronting him about this? I mean its not like you are badgering him about it, you just asked him! And its weird so why wouldnt you confront him? I dont want to accuse anyone of anything, but it reminds me of a guy who gets mad at a girl for becoming suspicious of him cheating on her or something...they turn it around on YOU so that you second-guess yourself (just as you are doing), and so that THEY dont get caught. Im not saying it is what he is doing here, but it just seems like a similar thing...
On a side note, did anyone see the Sex & the City episode when Charlotte was sleeping with a guy and when he (...you know), he called her "you dirty bi***, you dirty wh****" and never remembered it? Sorry to make light of the situation (Im really not trying to at all) but thats the first thing I thought of when I read this. She ended up leaving him b/c he continued to say it and didnt know why.