Uh....sorry. There is no other way to put this, he can NOT be fixed. You are NOT a wife to him, you are just a sub.
To hang on to an ex is one thing, but his behavior and actions are down right insane
. He is sick, ill, and not in his right mind. Love him all you want, but don't expect anything in the way of devotion from from him. Do expect pain and disappointment in a big way.
I know love is blind and all that BS, but this is really more like torture. Worse of all, your child is going through all this with you every step of the way. So....what are you gonna do
I have a suggestion. Run !
P.S. The siren is sooo loud that I can hear it from here. Ignore at your own risk !!!