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Old 10-14-2006, 12:46 PM   #1
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I met a man a week ago, i think he's lovely, and he seems to feel the same about me. My worry is that we had sex to early (on the first date to be exact)? was it to soon? we just seemed to click!

We've seen each other three times since then, which i feel is a good sign, but is it from the mans perspective?

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Old 10-14-2006, 01:22 PM   #2
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Re: advice?

I would say that most men like "the chase" but not all relationships are like that. I know people who have had sex on the first dat and have lasted for years. maybe you could bring it up to him about it casually to see his thoughts?

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Old 10-14-2006, 01:57 PM   #3
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Re: advice?

Everyone is different, so it is going to depend on the guy. If you're still seeing each other, then you weren't just a one night stand. If the relationship doesn't work out though, it doesn't necessarily mean that it's because you had sex right away. Just relax and enjoy the developing relationship
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Old 10-15-2006, 12:13 AM   #4
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Re: advice?

thankyou guys

Brooke85 i probably will talk to him about it in a few weeks, more out of curiosity, if we do continue to see each other.

gypsy archer your right i'll go with the flow. I guess i should take into account that theres a physical and a mental connection.

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