Re: guy troubles...AGAIN!! please help
Well, this is a tough one. On the one hand, there are late night phone calls, him calling you to take you out, etc. But on the other, he's not making any effort to make things more serious, such as telling your brother (which you could do, too), and you're sleeping with him, so maybe he's just out for that? But I really don't know. Either way, I think you need to address the issue with your brother first -- is he going to beat up the guy you're seeing if he finds out?